We all feel sad sometimes, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that we’re actually experiencing clinical depression. In fact, sadness is a normal emotion that can make life more interesting, and it’s a part of life. Much art and poetry are inspired by sadness and melancholy, for example, and sadness almost always accompanies the loss of a loved one.
Sadness also helps us appreciate happiness. When our mood eventually changes from sadness towards happiness, the sense of contrast adds to the enjoyment of the mood. However, a shift in the opposite direction is also possible – sadness can turn into depression. Being able to tell the difference between normal sadness and depression might encourage you to take action and seek resources for an improved mood.
How to Tell When Sadness Turns Into Depression
Be aware of the signs of sadness turning into depression and get help if you notice these symptoms significantly impacting your life for two weeks or longer.
When to Call Your Doctor
Know that you are not alone if you are experiencing some (or multiple) of the symptoms above.
If you’ve been experiencing symptoms of sadness or depression for longer than a few weeks, consider reaching out to your doctor to determine the cause and what you can do about it.
Sometimes depression is not because of what is going on around you. It could be a medical condition, like hypothyroidism, for example, that can be causing symptoms of depression.
Once your doctor rules out any potential medical causes, he or she will be able to provide other options for your depression or refer you to a psychiatrist or therapist who can help you.
How to Cope With Normal Sadness
Here are some ways to experience normal sadness in a healthy way and to allow this emotion to enrich your life:
Allow yourself to be sad. Denying such feelings may force them underground, where they can do more damage with time. Cry if you feel like it. Notice if you feel relief after the tears stop.
If you are feeling sad, plan a day to wallow. Plan a day or evening just to be alone, listen to melancholy music, and observe your thoughts and feelings. Planning time to be unhappy can actually feel good and can help you ultimately move into a more happy mood.
Think and/or write about the context of the sad feelings. Are you sad because of a loss or an unhappy event? It’s usually not as simple as discovering the cause of the sadness, but understanding why you’re sad and exploring those feelings can help you feel better.
Take a walk. Sometimes some fresh air and a little quiet time can change your perspective.
Call a close friend or family member. Sometimes venting your feelings can help you process them.
Be kind to yourself. This may include a hot bubble bath, indulging in a nap, or splurging for some really good chocolate.
Let yourself laugh. Fire up a favorite comedy and binge watch it for a while, or find a funny YouTube video.